Now, creating a life of meaning is your task.
I can only point you in the right direction based on what’s worked for me.
You can read about meaning. You can talk about meaning. You can even create a song and dance about meaning.
But it’s not until you’ve committed to this task and made it your own that will realize how important meaning is to your mental health.
For me, meaning comes down to a few things.
One, it’s about committing myself to something that I would do, no matter what. This newsletter, The Mental Health Update, is a huge part of that. I’ve fallen in love with the process of writing and sharing what I’ve learned.
Yes, I have some members who support me, but I would do this–and I have done this–without being paid for it. Deep down in my heart, I don’t want others to feel the way I felt when I didn’t have access to helpful mental health information. That’s why I try to make mental health information as accessible and meaningful as possible.
The meaning is baked into the hours of time I spend writing each week.
Second, and I think this is especially important, is the context. Would this writing mean anything if I had no one to share it with?
Sure, it might mean something, but the meaning is only enhanced when I connect with you, the reader, another human being like me, just trying to figure it all out in life.
I now get to discuss mental health with old friends, with family members, and with strangers-turned-friends all over the world. It seems like a dream–but it’s not.
The often-missed component of a meaningful life is “for whom” and “with whom.”
Who are the people you want to be around?
What is your relationship with them?
Emotions, thoughts, and behaviors mean very little if they happen within a vacuum.
It’s the people that makes them come alive. Everything must be considered in its proper context.
So, let’s review.
Commit to something grand, something that makes you come alive.
Then, share that work with the world. Allow others to deepen your understanding of it.
That’s what has worked for me, and it seems almost too simplistic.
But the simple stuff is what will change your life.
Meaning comes from within, but it’s shaped and solidified by the world around you.
Your task is find what makes your heart sing.
Then, go share it with the world.
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